http://thecenterforhealingarts.com/light-a-candle/
I don't have much time to write (I will update hopefully tonight) but this website was brought to my attention. You can create a group, light a virtual candle, leave a message and it will stay lit for 36 hours. I was thinking on our hard days such as birthdays and the days are babies left us we can start a group and put it on our blogs.