tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2718943270174254280.post104137129692472606..comments2023-05-30T01:45:47.877-07:00Comments on Learning To Fly: Welcome To My WorldBellaStephhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08129157299412942108noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2718943270174254280.post-15060915851348815612011-04-19T04:12:01.079-07:002011-04-19T04:12:01.079-07:00Jeannie thanks for your comment. I am sorry for yo...Jeannie thanks for your comment. I am sorry for your losses as well. I would be lost without my mother I know that has to be so hard. You did not offend me at all. I never miscarried but my mother has. Three times in fact and more then half way through the pregnancies. She was obviously miserable after them and had a hard time for a while. When Gavin died though she said to me honey this is nothing like what I went through it's much, much worse. I don't like to say either is worse. I do think it's harder to have seen my child, smelled him, loved him, rocked him, and planned our life out then to have never met him and lost him early on. I know though that if I miscarried this child though I would be miserable. So I feel for those who have miscarried and am sorry their losses. I think we all have a reason to mourn our babies whether we met them or not. The only thing that made me upset is a friend who miscarried told me at least you got to hold him. I replied do you think I have it better? I had to plan my infant son's funeral! I would have never said to her anything like she did to me.BellaStephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08129157299412942108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2718943270174254280.post-80517110273671752902011-04-18T07:36:35.892-07:002011-04-18T07:36:35.892-07:00thank you for sharing your story. i'm so sorr...thank you for sharing your story. i'm so sorry. i walked for the march of dimes yesterday in honor of the babies i lost at 9 weeks and at 22 weeks. during that walk, i had this epiphany that it was much easier to have lost an unborn baby than to have had that baby be here and hold him and make memories with him. sure, i have the in-utero movements and the ultrasound pictures, but it's not the same as actually having the baby to share with everyone. this is merely my opinion -not meant to offend you or anyone else. i lost my mother shortly after the second baby and i know the feeling of emptiness. i'm so sorry for the pain you will always have. i'm learning just how horrible it is to lose our babies. congratulations on you pregnancy!Jeanniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15715425318038403432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2718943270174254280.post-17370070231745182582011-04-15T12:21:44.818-07:002011-04-15T12:21:44.818-07:00Thanks for your kind words they are much appreciat...Thanks for your kind words they are much appreciated.BellaStephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08129157299412942108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2718943270174254280.post-19450726316417038202011-04-14T13:04:07.711-07:002011-04-14T13:04:07.711-07:00I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful littl...I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful little boy. Being pregnant after losing a child is the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I hope that this pregnancy goes smoothly for you.DSAhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16233041460934546197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2718943270174254280.post-33707140522222686442011-04-14T12:26:35.380-07:002011-04-14T12:26:35.380-07:00Thank you!Thank you!BellaStephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08129157299412942108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2718943270174254280.post-10440001095470931722011-04-14T11:23:03.860-07:002011-04-14T11:23:03.860-07:00I am so incredibly sorry for your loss ((((HUGEHUG...I am so incredibly sorry for your loss ((((HUGEHUGS))))Katrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09672088889023486893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2718943270174254280.post-15134810931137973732011-04-14T11:13:22.155-07:002011-04-14T11:13:22.155-07:00Your story brought me to tears. I am so sorry for...Your story brought me to tears. I am so sorry for your loss. ((hugs))anonomityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07545417876262273845noreply@blogger.com